I am writing this in response to reading a blog article on XiaXue's blog.
There's this post entry about Adele and how being overweight is an issue.
The whole overall post was really all about hating and misunderstanding, and mostly about the size of a woman, which doesn't even know we exist.
In some parts, I feel that Xiaxue has a wrong judgement on those fat girls she thinks are hating on skinny girls.
Adele has a strong character with strong confidence and she isn't afraid of that.
She wants the world to listen and watch her grow through her music and not by her looks.
She is trying to say that she is born that way and that even though lady gaga or katy perry has slimmer figures, she was given a larger frame to hold that beautiful voice.
Adele knows what society is after and she knows what society looks for in celebrities.
An I'm sure there have been many tabloid articles about Adele's weight and her size.
But I guess the main point is that she does not heed to all those comments.
She knows she is strong and she knows she is built that way, in a large healthy body, and she does not try to change that fact.
People do infact idolise her for her strength and courage for standing out in a world full of slim figured girls. She works hard beyond the small perception that society has for woman sizes. And she aims to improve places other people couldn't.
Yes, there are some girls who work hard for their skinny bodies that some of us do not know. We could only presume that they are born with their petite bodies and that they scorn at the others for not looking as good as them. Its hows how small the minds of societies nowadays are. Everyone can be so prejudiced.
Not all fat girls hate on skinny girls. And not all skinny girls laugh at fat girls.
Every individual has an aim, and their own priorities. It all depends on how one place their looks on which part of the list; the top or the bottom.
But in this poster, I somewhat agree with Xiaxue. She criticises Nicole Ritchie because of her body size and then says that she hates exercises. Exercising doesn't mean you'll get skinny. It's just a way of staying healthy and keeping fit.
Yes, Adele means that she wants her music to be heard all over the world. And she wants the world to love her for her music and not her image. But trying to keep a healthy body won't hurt, will it?
There are so any musicians out there who is as talented as Adele, but works hard to maintain that healthy body at the same time.
The rest of the post dribbles on about weight and size and celebrity.
I think people are getting overworked about something so petty, but society has decided to make a big deal out of it.
Being fat and being skinny does not change your personality. Sure, most people do prefer skinnier girls, but whats there to be done about that. People may go around trying to change the perception of the world with campaigns and idolising strong women like Adele. But some things we can't change, and that one of the things is trying to change the way we see pretty things.
We're all human. And we like pretty things.
There's nothing to be done about that. If someone take that too seriously, they should do something about it.
Loving the way we are is one thing, and exercising to lose weight is another thing.
You can't just presume to put everything together, like being a hypocrite on loving yourself, but refuses to exercises. Or even loving yourself, but still trying to exercise.
How are you going to comprehend that???
Either way, you end up being called a hypocrite.
So I'm going to sign out from here because my opinion ends here.
I cannot read other people's mind and I am in no place to judge who is right or who is wrong.
This is all purely based on my opinion only.
Anyways, valentine's day is up?
Anyone making any special preparations?? haha
